Getting Off a Relation - A Mans Perspective

author - Isaac John

To walk hand in hand across the JP Park, Mathikere, the mood, the huge green clean park, some moments last for ever- but as memories. Before even the relationship begins to blossom, thoughts are already on to drown the ship of the particular relationship. Its not a secret that a human being cannot commit himself with certain ppl from the opposite sex, however attractions lead to the start of such a relation and the male brain begins to try to find ways to come out of the 'quicksand'.

Got a call one day from a very close friend, and he was right at target, he asked "whos that gal" obvious response was "where did u see us", it wasnt difficult for him to make such a wild guess, a guy often sacrifies time with his buddies when in new companionship.

Not all companinship's are pleasant, no not for guys, there was this gal who had a fav. question "do u love me?" kind of usual stuff one must think but the situation was that the guy told her that he was sick and hence couldnt call her for 2 days. this was a typical case of her being a 'selish quicksand'

Another guy described his past relation as one in which there was a lot of tears involved, the reason wasnt horrible as we expected, he said the gal simply would cry for any reason or even no reason, she would cry if he called her for long hours, spoke to her friend or even if he was busy and couldnt pick her call at that moment. This is a typical 'teary quicksand'.


Sometimes "getting out" of the roller coaster of relationship isnt as easy as "getting into" the ride, ur head begins to spin and ur foot begins to dance.

So my choise is not to commit to a relation. But then again the questions arises "if u dont commit then how do u know if a relationship is the right one?"